Do you know "human relationship reset syndrome"?Some of you may have thought, "I want to reset human relationships and go to a world where no one knows."It is a word that refers to a person who actually breaks the relationship between online and offline when he falls into such a psychology.
In the present era, conditions that are likely to fall into such a situation are in place, and many young people actually take action.I would like to explain the background, actual situation, and risks of human relationship reset syndrome.
Suddenly off all the relationships
"I've been friends until then, but suddenly disappeared from LINE. I was worried about what I did, but I didn't think of it, and when I asked a common friend, I was not the only one who was cut off.I understand, "said a woman who has had the experience of disappearing from LINE from LINE.She said, "I was sad, lonely and disappointing. I hope you are fine."
I had an acquaintance in the past to recreate my account many times in the past.I was worried because it suddenly disappeared, but after a while, it was revived with a new account, and that was not once.He was a regular actor.
While some of the accounts are new, some people apply for friends without worrying, while others have not been able to connect again if they are cut.Surely, I felt that there was a merit to reset human relationships.It may have been cornered, but I felt it was a selfish act of swinging the opponent.
What kind of actions do you take when you have human relationship reset syndrome?After deleting SNS accounts, deleting LINE friends, deleting smartphone contact information, etc., it is often lost.In some cases, moving or changing jobs, there are cases in which human relationships are cut off, but in some cases they are cut off when they go to school or change jobs.As mentioned earlier, cutting off the relationship includes close friends.Many people are hurt by the cut side, and they are troubled without knowing the reason.
Is it a reset to escape the stress of human relationships?
Some have accused people who do this, "I think that human relationships can reset in the same way as games."There is a possibility that there is no right person behind the screen that there is a living person, and that it can be reset by deleting or blocking.Conversely, some people who are stressed in human relationships are deleted for self -defense to escape stress.
Did you know the "block tournament" held on LINE?Under the name, "LINE is getting heavier, we will organize friends", such as "I will block the tournament. If you don't want to be blocked, please like this post."
It is thought to be an act that does not want to be a blocked side, or wants to control human relationships comfortably.Rather, people who are afraid of being blocked or cut may be blocked or cut, but it is also considered a similar psychology.
The online conversion of human relationships also has an effect
Behind this, human relationships have become easier to reset.In the first place, in the first place, even real friends do not know each other's phone number or email address, and are often connected on SNS.If you block it on SNS or delete it from a friend, it is easy to cut human relationships.
The number that people can connect smoothly and stably are said to be the limit (dumbbar number), and we are too connected by SNS.There will be a reaction to this connection too much.
Now many people have one account per person on SNS, and are being exposed to others anytime, anywhere."I'm posting on Twitter / Instagram without a reply to LINE." "I don't like it, but I'm doing that person," "I'm not invited to play alone among my friends."The act of the cylinder is lost, and as a result, it is stressed.
Corona's evil has greatly reduced real exchange, and many human relationships have been online.The realistic encounter has decreased, and I met on SNS and matching apps, and interacted.Less than talking on face -to -face, commenting on SNS, chatting distributors in video distribution, and talking on online games in voice chat has become a lot of communication in young people in everyday life.
The prominence of human relations resetting to young people may be due to the fact that human relationships have been online due to corona, and the stress has increased due to corona evil.
If you're really cornered, reset is not bad.But, of course, there is also a negative effect.By repeating resetting, you cannot build a reliable relationship, you will be lonely and you will not have any friends who can say your true intentions.Especially when you are young, it is also an important preparation period to build a lifetime human relationship.Wouldn't it be a good idea not only to cut it easily, but also to reconcile with the other party or reconstruct a relationship.
Akiko Takahashi
IT journalist, visiting professor at Seikei University.He specializes in SNS, teenage use, information moral literacy.He is familiar with smartphones and Internet -related incidents, troubles, and ICT education.He writes, lectures, media appearances, and supervision.He is publishing a column in the Educational Publishing Junior High School Language Textbook.Former elementary school teacher.
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